Examples of Social Abuse Towards Parents
Deliberately excluding parents from school events, meetings, or activities, making them feel isolated and marginalised within the school community.
Exclusion from school events:
Restricting parents' access to important information about their child's education, progress, or support services, preventing them from being fully informed and involved in their child's schooling.
Limiting access to information:
Allowing or perpetuating the exclusion or ostracism of parents of children with disabilities by other parents or members of the school community, fostering a sense of isolation and alienation.
Ostracism by other parents:
Ignoring or consistently disregarding attempts by parents to communicate or engage with school staff, leaving them feeling ignored and disrespected.
Ignoring communication attempts:
Communicating selectively with parents of children with disabilities, withholding information or updates that are readily shared with other parents, creating a sense of inequality and unfair treatment.
Selective communication:
Using derogatory language or labelling parents of children with disabilities in a derogatory manner, reinforcing negative stereotypes and prejudices within the school community.
Labelling or stereotyping:
Excluding parents from decision-making processes or consultations related to their child's education, disregarding their input and expertise as valuable members of the educational team.
Exclusion from decision-making:
Forming cliques or exclusive groups among parents or staff members, excluding parents of children with disabilities from participating or feeling welcome within these social circles.
Clique formation:
Disregarding or undermining parental authority or decisions regarding their child's education or well-being, eroding parents' confidence and sense of control.
Undermining parental authority:
Publicly humiliating or shaming parents of children with disabilities in front of other parents, students, or school staff, causing embarrassment and distress.